Well, we have made it through another year to the Christmas season once again. Now, if you are like me, you have not completed your gift purchasing yet and are unsure what gifts to give to at least some people close to you, or even where you can start. Luckily, here I have compiled some guidance for everyone who is looking to give a gift with at least some meaning, whether it be for a loved one, friend, or anyone else.
Step 1: Just Ask Them
This method is the easiest and usually the most effective, and often works for adults and close family members who you can easily talk to. Simply ask the person you intend to get a gift for what they would like to get as a gift from you. If they do not think of anything off the top of their head, give them some time to mull it over. (It helps if you make sure not to ask them right before you have to buy the gift.) This is the most effective, efficient, and overall painless way to plan what you want to give to a specific person. Whenever you can, figure out what your gift is straight from the source. If they do not like the gift you give them, they really only have themselves to blame.
However, I admit that this does not work in every scenario. If you are in a gift exchange or secret Santa, you cannot let the person know you are giving them a gift; if they are really indecisive, you will not be able to get a straight answer for what they want; and if it is very close to the time to give the gift, you may not be able to ask them and get the gift in time. All of these circumstances are completely understandable and the main reason why I am writing this article.
So . . . what do you do if the intended recipient has not provided any advice on what they would like? [Ed. Note—panic?]
Step 2: The C.H.E.E.R. Method
I have created the perfect series of ideas to consider when deciding what type of present you would like to give to a specific person. And, better yet, I have a Christmas themed acronym for it. I present to you: the C.H.E.E.R. Method.
C – Character
Consider the person for whom you are getting the gift. How old are they? Where do they live? What kind of job do they have? All of these are helpful to show you what kind of gift they may appreciate. For example, a kid may prefer a toy or such, while someone living in an apartment will not like anything too large and permanent (unless they specifically request it).
H – Humor
One of the best ways to make a gift to a friend or loved one seem personalized and special is through humor, especially if the two of you are old friends and already have inside jokes between you. The use of humor can also make the gift more appropriate, especially if it is for a gift exchange.
E – Exigence
This simply means the circumstances around which you gave the gift. For example, this is good when deciding how much you are willing to spend on the gift. It can also consider the formality of the gift and how much it needs to be wrapped. This also makes the C.H.E.E.R. Method useful no matter when you are giving a gift: for Christmas, for a birthday, or for any other special occasion.
E – usE
Realistically, will the person actually be able to utilize and enjoy the gift enough to justify the price? If not, it is likely not the best option. This also depends partly on the situation, as sappier, more emotionally-focused gifts can be better options. However, remember: sometimes being practical is better than simply looking good.
R – Relationship
The final aspect that you have to nail to make a perfect gift is the relationship with the recipient. An acquaintance should generally get a more impersonal gift compared to a close friend. On the other hand, your family can generally receive any type of gift, practical or not.